Many families never have this conversation, and the people left behind end up guessing. A short, calm talk now can save a lot of stress later.
Ways to start
- "I've been sorting out some paperwork and want you to know where things are."
- Use a moment that comes up naturally, such as another family's funeral or updating a will.
- Keep the first conversation short. It doesn't have to cover everything.
What to cover
- Your basic wishes: burial or cremation, type of service
- How costs will be paid, and where the policies or plans are
- Who your executor is
- Where your documents are kept
Our funeral planning checklist is a good thing to fill in together.
This guide is general information, not insurance, financial, legal or tax advice.